"And as many as have received me, to them have I given to become the sons of God"
3 Nephi 9:17
What greater gift is given than to be the son of God?
What blessing could be sweeter than our feet in peace be shod?
What can the world then offer that is half so wondrous great,
as sanguine expectation that we leave this fallen state?
Embrace the Savior, O my soul, and love him, O my heart,
that from his love and kindness I may never live apart!
Thursday, November 24, 2016
Wednesday, November 23, 2016
Restaurant Review: Thai Evergreen. Orem, Utah.
Located at 1360 Sandhill Road, Thai Evergreen is a Thai cafe run by Laotians that serves Chinese fortune cookies with German proverbs. Mine read: "The trees never reach the sky." Kappe zu, Affe tot.
I ate there today with my daughter Sarah, her husband Jonny, and the grand kids Ohen, Lance, and Brooke. We had massaman curry, green curry, green papaya salad, orange chicken, fishcakes, chicken satay, and lots of jasmine and sticky rice -- enough to feed all six of us and have plenty to take home -- for $60.00.
Our waitress, by the way, did not want to be photographed.
I'm giving the place Four Burps. The service was good, the food even better, and how can I complain when I get to play Foxy Grandpa to three adorable children? Tell 'em Groucho sent ya . . .
I ate there today with my daughter Sarah, her husband Jonny, and the grand kids Ohen, Lance, and Brooke. We had massaman curry, green curry, green papaya salad, orange chicken, fishcakes, chicken satay, and lots of jasmine and sticky rice -- enough to feed all six of us and have plenty to take home -- for $60.00.
Our waitress, by the way, did not want to be photographed.
I'm giving the place Four Burps. The service was good, the food even better, and how can I complain when I get to play Foxy Grandpa to three adorable children? Tell 'em Groucho sent ya . . .
The Devil Laughs
". . . for the devil laugheth, and his angels rejoice, because of the slain of the fair sons and daughters of my people . . . " 3 Nephi 9:2
If ever you are tempted to
hear the devil laugh, then you
ought to have your head probed quick
because, friend, you are mighty sick.
The tones of mirth from that old fiend
from earthly joy will have you weaned.
It grates upon the upward bound,
and is a most depressing sound.
Invite the devil for a jest
and never more will you know rest.
If ever you are tempted to
hear the devil laugh, then you
ought to have your head probed quick
because, friend, you are mighty sick.
The tones of mirth from that old fiend
from earthly joy will have you weaned.
It grates upon the upward bound,
and is a most depressing sound.
Invite the devil for a jest
and never more will you know rest.
Tuesday, November 22, 2016
Turkeys Lay Eggs, Too, Then the Foodies Fight Over Them
I think that I shall never see
a turkey egg -- such rarity!
I might range to Timbuktu
and never have a single view.
Vast wealth I'll offer, but alas --
they're rarer than a Latin Mass.
Perhaps in Shangri-La I might
find one over which to fight.
But should I manage one to take,
I'll drop it and then watch it break.
Restaurant Review: Sam Hawk Korean Restaurant. Provo, Utah.
I really foozled it on this one. The place is located at 660 N Freedom, right across the street from the Provo Rec Center, and I've been meaning to go there for months. Finally today I went late for my daily swim, and decided to do lunch there. The interior is rather stark, except for one large Korean brush painting:
I believe the characters in the painting stand for "He who chooses blindly will fall into a pit of his own ordering." That, at least, is the lesson I am taking away from today's debacle. The waitress was a pleasant and intelligent looking gal, and I should have asked her what she recommended for a first time customer. But no, I had to go gallivanting off on my own and choose two of the weirdest dishes on the menu: Teokbokki and Soondubu Jigae. The Teokbokki was supposed to be the appetizer, but as soon as it was set before me the entre was brought out as well. This always confuses and upsets me; should I concentrate on the appetizer until it's gone, or switch back and forth, or throw a tantrum and beat my head against the wall? I asked the waitress how spicy the Teokbokki was; she said not very spicy. But the first bite blew the top off my head. The dish, as far as I could make out, is made up of gluey thick rice noodles in a red sauce that would etch stainless steel.
The other thing, the Soondubu Jigae, was some kind of tofu sludge with marrow-flavored rubber bands in it and several small dispirited shrimp palely loitering. But after the flaming appetizer I was grateful for its blandness. It came with teeny tiny sides of cold boiled potatoes, raw black beans, bean sprouts, kimchi, and thin cucumber slices.
My two dishes, plus a fountain drink, cost $21.82. I'm not going to rate this place, because I feel strongly I placed my order like a ninnyhammer. Everyone around me was enjoying succulent-looking spare ribs and platters piled high with shredded beef or pork in a rich barbecue sauce. That's obviously what I should have ordered. So I'll have to go back again for the good stuff.
But right now you'll excuse me if I go have an Alka Seltzer moment . . .
I believe the characters in the painting stand for "He who chooses blindly will fall into a pit of his own ordering." That, at least, is the lesson I am taking away from today's debacle. The waitress was a pleasant and intelligent looking gal, and I should have asked her what she recommended for a first time customer. But no, I had to go gallivanting off on my own and choose two of the weirdest dishes on the menu: Teokbokki and Soondubu Jigae. The Teokbokki was supposed to be the appetizer, but as soon as it was set before me the entre was brought out as well. This always confuses and upsets me; should I concentrate on the appetizer until it's gone, or switch back and forth, or throw a tantrum and beat my head against the wall? I asked the waitress how spicy the Teokbokki was; she said not very spicy. But the first bite blew the top off my head. The dish, as far as I could make out, is made up of gluey thick rice noodles in a red sauce that would etch stainless steel.
The other thing, the Soondubu Jigae, was some kind of tofu sludge with marrow-flavored rubber bands in it and several small dispirited shrimp palely loitering. But after the flaming appetizer I was grateful for its blandness. It came with teeny tiny sides of cold boiled potatoes, raw black beans, bean sprouts, kimchi, and thin cucumber slices.
My two dishes, plus a fountain drink, cost $21.82. I'm not going to rate this place, because I feel strongly I placed my order like a ninnyhammer. Everyone around me was enjoying succulent-looking spare ribs and platters piled high with shredded beef or pork in a rich barbecue sauce. That's obviously what I should have ordered. So I'll have to go back again for the good stuff.
But right now you'll excuse me if I go have an Alka Seltzer moment . . .
En Strengen av Perler: The History of Clown White.
Whitening the human face for comic effect has its roots in ancient Greek theater. Comic characters were portrayed wearing white masks, while the tragic heroes were usually cast in black masks. The ancient Romans continued the tradition until, sometime after the Visigoths sacked the city of Rome at the beginning of the Dark Ages, all masks were prohibited by the Catholic church – who thought they smacked too much of idolatry and sacrilege.
I learned all this in a theater class at the University of Minnesota during a hiatus from the circus, when I decided to trade in my slapstick for a mortar board and become a teacher. That didn't last very long; three semesters altogether. When I left to resume my buffoonery the theater faculty gratefully voted me a flea collar with the inscription: "Barba Tenus Sapientes".
But I digress. To continue with our lecture:
Players then began using minerals and plant matter to color their own faces. Among the former, white lead was the favorite way of whitening the player’s face. No one back then really knew about the potential for lead poisoning, but luckily players only daubed it on for brief appearances and then immediately wiped it off to put on another hue to play another character in the same play. Thus, they never had it on long enough for the lead to seep into the skin and enter the blood stream.
All this changed during the Industrial Revolution in England. First, because the process for making white lead became much simpler. Before then regular lead bars were steeped in vinegar, then covered in dung for several weeks, during which time chemical reactions from the vinegar and the dung’s acids would turn the outside of the bar white. When the bars were uncovered the white crust was scrapped off, washed thoroughly, and made into a paste with tallow. White lead was used as a white wash and a lubricant in factories because it lasted longer and did not smolder, unlike other lubricants. So the English factory owners paid their nascent chemists to come up with a quick and easy way to make white lead paste, and they did. Heated and then sprayed with acetic acid, the lead bars turned white and began flaking without assistance. White lead was now to be found everywhere.
The second change was attributable to one man, the famous English clown Joseph Grimaldi. He it was who first pranced on the stage with his face completely whitened with a combination of beeswax, paraffin, and white lead. But Grimaldi, whose ancestors came from Italy, knew a thing or two about white lead, namely that painters who used it frequently back in Italy had a tendency to literally shrivel up and die. From lead poisoning.
Grimaldi had a secret oil, some say it was bergamot, some say it was rosemary, that he added to his face-whitening mixture that neutered the effects of the white lead, and so he could wear it with impunity. When Grimaldi retired he did not reveal his secret ingredient, taking it to the grave with him. Other clowns who emulated Grimaldi’s whiteface began suffering the symptoms of lead poisoning. These included confusion, irritability, anemia, joint pain, and in some cases seizures. These are the same symptoms that children suffer today when they ingest paint chips from old houses that were originally coated with lead paint.
My parents' house in Minneapolis, built in the 1920's, was a bonanza for both lead paint and asbestos. Plus my parents were both heavy smokers when I was a kid. It's a wonder that I and my little sisters escaped that toxic swamp with our mental and physical health intact. Or did we? My one sister uses sheets of Japanese seaweed to make organic and edible pinatas out in Oregon. My other sister is a kleptomaniac who specializes in ripping the wings off butterflies at the Como Butterfly House and putting them under her pillow. I myself am as sane as any March hare, but have a tendency to come down with the marthambles every winter.
But white lead was capricious, troubling some clowns and ignoring others who wore it constantly. The first whiteface clown in America, George L. Fox (1825 – 1877) began losing coordination in his early thirties, and by the time he was 55 he could barely walk and had to be taken in by his sister until he passed away. But the Hanlon Brothers, a rowdy family circus that toured the South prior to the Civil War, and who all wore whiteface, were never troubled by the symptoms of lead poisoning.
Perhaps the most tragic victim of white lead poisoning was the Ringling clown Frank ‘Slivers’ Oakley (1871 to 1916). After rising to the top at Ringling Brothers Circus, he suddenly developed severe knee problems and had to retire prematurely when barely in his forties. When he tried a comeback several years later he collapsed in the center ring during his first clown sketch and had to be carried out. The next day he shot himself with a pistol.
As early as the Second century BC, the Greek botanist Nicander voiced suspicions about exposure to lead and its harmful effects, but it wasn’t until the early 20th century, when automobiles came in to their own, and lead was added to gasoline to prevent engine ‘knocking’, that scientists as a group decided that lead in all its forms was deadly to mankind at high exposure levels. Most lead mines in America were closed down immediately. Laws were passed to remove lead from gasoline. But no one thought much about the poor American circus clown, who was still mixing up his own whiteface makeup, using mineral oil, beeswax, and white lead. And still suffering the effects of chronic lead poisoning, which, in circus lingo, was called ‘jake leg’.
It wasn’t until Max Factor, a Polish immigrant who settled in Hollywood to make wigs and cosmetics, came out with his ‘Safety Clown White’ in 1920, that clowns were finally rescued from chronic lead poisoning. Having studied art in Florence, Italy, prior to settling down to the wigmaker’s trade, Factor knew that artists had eschewed the use of white lead in favor of oxide of titanium for the color white. Max worked late into the night experimenting with oxide of titanium, until he developed a formula that gave the exact same white sheen that white lead did, and he began taking his brand of clown white makeup down to the circus lot whenever a show would play Los Angeles and give away free samples to the clowns. It didn’t take whiteface clowns long before they noticed how much better they felt when using Factor’s clown white instead of their own concoction, and by 1927 every American ‘joey’ was using the Max Factor brand for whiteface. ‘Jake leg’ disappeared from the circus, never to return. Today clown white comes in many different brands, and the main whitening agent is neither white lead nor oxide of titanium, but zinc oxide – the same thing we use on bee stings and sunburn.
In fact, one of the very first things I learned in clown alley, from veteran clown Swede Johnson, was to prevent jock itch by smearing on a generous amount of clown white on my nether regions when the hot weather arrived. That kept me calm, cool, and collected while other clowns, who heeded not Swede's pearls of wisdom, itched and scratched and generally walked around bow-legged all summer long.
and we know our record to be true
" . . . and we know our record to be true . . . "
3 Nephi. 8:1
Where to find recorded truth has plagued mankind no end;
where to find reality that isn't merely trend.
How to know that what we hear or read is guaranteed
to be veracious and not be some foolish cankered creed.
There is only one pathway that stays both straight and right;
the Book of Mormon is the way, the truth, the good, the light.
And if you doubt my words I say you need not trust in me;
just pray to God, who knoweth all, and He will instruct thee!
3 Nephi. 8:1
Where to find recorded truth has plagued mankind no end;
where to find reality that isn't merely trend.
How to know that what we hear or read is guaranteed
to be veracious and not be some foolish cankered creed.
There is only one pathway that stays both straight and right;
the Book of Mormon is the way, the truth, the good, the light.
And if you doubt my words I say you need not trust in me;
just pray to God, who knoweth all, and He will instruct thee!
Monday, November 21, 2016
En Strengen av Perler: Silver and gold have I none
In 1974 I was in the middle of my LDS mission in Thailand. I worked for two years prior to going to save enough money to be eligible for my call from President Spencer W. Kimball. I had no idea where I would be sent; I only knew I wanted to go. Needed to go. Not to prove anything, but because a love stronger than anything I had ever experienced before had gently led me to that decision. So I did birthday parties as a clown, and then, by good fortune, I was teamed with master clown Steve Smith at Ringling Brothers for a season as advance clown for the show. At a very good salary. When I left the show to become a full-fledged missionary, Smith said huskily: "Tork, just remember that my regard for you is like heat rash -- it'll never be gone unless you learn to shower more often!"
Much of my time in Thailand was spent in and around Bangkok.
The city sidewalks there, when not inundated by floods and garbage, were awash with mendicants.
Country women, their small withered breasts hanging out, sitting sideways and holding a silent infant, followed me with their eyes; their lips and teeth stained a lurid red with betel nut. Blind men blew discordantly on tin whistles. Old ladies, their shriveled faces as sad and remote as an Appalachian applehead doll, holding out an ornately designed tin bowl, mouthing soundless entreaties.
There were, of course, innumerable street urchins, clad only in long tattered t-shirts like Hearst's The Yellow Kid. Their constant cry upon sighting a farang such as myself or my companion was "Hey you, one baht!"
Thai Church members told me that the begging was all a racket -- the Chinese mafia put those poor supplicants out every morning and picked them up after the foot traffic stopped around midnight, keeping most of the money collected and giving the wretched beggars just enough to live on in unimaginable squalor. It was well known, the Thai members informed me, that anyone in real need had only to appeal to the nearest Buddhist temple and the monks there would be glad to see to their wants.
For several weeks in the Pratuu Naam area of Bangkok my companion and I went business tracting -- that is, we went into office buildings, and, floor by floor, office by office, confronted officious secretaries to demand to see the boss right away. We had a very important message to deliver. We got in to see the boss surprisingly often (because there was a rumor extant that the Mormon missionaries were actually working for the CIA) and would then deliver a ten minute explanation of the Family Home Evening program, leave a pamphlet explaining it in more detail. We gave nothing but the dust of our heels to the huffy secretaries.
Each day during that period we walked past one particular beggar, who was spectacularly crippled. He looked like a contortionist frozen in the most agonizing part of his act. His fingers were splayed like the roots of a fallen tree. He was covered in scabs. He lay on his stomach as his arms and legs spasmed continuously, assuming impossible angles. He drooled constantly. His eyes did not focus.
He lay on a thin and filthy bamboo mat, in the direct sunlight.
Everyone averted their eyes from him, including me. But he was sketched in my mind by peripheral glances, and I began to obsess about him.
A scripture from the Book of Acts kept recurring to me: "Then Peter said Silver and gold have I none, but such as I have give I thee . . . "
I wanted very much to be able to do the same thing for that poor cripple, frying like an egg on the scorching sidewalk. It was a prideful longing to do something spectacular that would make the careless Thais sit up and take notice of the LDS Church. I cared nothing for the glory of God, but only for my own chance to get back into the spotlight.
One morning my companion and I went to the Chemical Bank before beginning our business tracting, in order to draw money out of our savings accounts to pay the monthly household bills. This included rent and the maid.
And so we each carried 5-thousand baht in our pockets as we began that day's proselyting.
As we approached the writhing cripple on his stomach I fell a few steps back from my companion. When I reached the beggar I quickly bent down and put all of my 5-thousand baht in his pink plastic bowl. Then caught up with my companion. I never even looked directly at the beggar.
Believe me, this was not my Mother Theresa moment. All I felt was anger and resentment, as if that cripple were emotionally blackmailing me.
I was relieved and guilty at the same time. I had done something, but it was not a miracle, and, according to the Thai members I had talked to, it was probably a complete waste of my own money.
5-thousand baht was a lot of money back then. I had to sell my leather briefcase, my wristwatch and my camera in order to have enough to pay my share of the bills.
I never saw that crippled man again. The next day I was stung by a small scorpion as I was putting on my shoes and had to be rushed to the hospital with a severe allergic reaction. I was in the hospital for several weeks, trying not to ogle the beguiling nurses and my reading material restricted to the Book of Mormon in its incomplete Thai version. When I recovered I was transferred to a different part of Bangkok.
Now that I'm older and don't care a fig about getting any wiser, I can write about what happened back in Bangkok without trying to pin a meaning onto it. Or if you insist on one: "Look up at the tropical sky to go blind and fall into a Bangkok sewer."
En Strengen av Perler: Silver and gold have I none
In 1974 I was in the middle of my LDS mission in Thailand. I worked for two years prior to going to save enough money to be eligible for my call from President Spencer W. Kimball. I had no idea where I would be sent; I only knew I wanted to go. Needed to go. Not to prove anything, but because a love stronger than anything I had ever experienced before had gently led me to that decision. So I did birthday parties as a clown, and then, by good fortune, I was teamed with master clown Steve Smith at Ringling Brothers for a season as advance clown for the show. At a very good salary. When I left the show to become a full-fledged missionary, Smith said huskily: "Tork, just remember that my regard for you is like heat rash -- it'll never be gone unless you learn to shower more often!"
Much of my time in Thailand was spent in and around Bangkok.
The city sidewalks there, when not inundated by floods and garbage, were awash with mendicants.
Country women, their small withered breasts hanging out, sitting sideways and holding a silent infant, followed me with their eyes; their lips and teeth stained a lurid red with betel nut. Blind men blew discordantly on tin whistles. Old ladies, their shriveled faces as sad and remote as an Appalachian applehead doll, holding out an ornately designed tin bowl, mouthing soundless entreaties.
There were, of course, innumerable street urchins, clad only in long tattered t-shirts like Hearst's The Yellow Kid. Their constant cry upon sighting a farang such as myself or my companion was "Hey you, one baht!"
Thai Church members told me that the begging was all a racket -- the Chinese mafia put those poor supplicants out every morning and picked them up after the foot traffic stopped around midnight, keeping most of the money collected and giving the wretched beggars just enough to live on in unimaginable squalor. It was well known, the Thai members informed me, that anyone in real need had only to appeal to the nearest Buddhist temple and the monks there would be glad to see to their wants.
For several weeks in the Pratuu Naam area of Bangkok my companion and I went business tracting -- that is, we went into office buildings, and, floor by floor, office by office, confronted officious secretaries to demand to see the boss right away. We had a very important message to deliver. We got in to see the boss surprisingly often (because there was a rumor extant that the Mormon missionaries were actually working for the CIA) and would then deliver a ten minute explanation of the Family Home Evening program, leave a pamphlet explaining it in more detail. We gave nothing but the dust of our heels to the huffy secretaries.
Each day during that period we walked past one particular beggar, who was spectacularly crippled. He looked like a contortionist frozen in the most agonizing part of his act. His fingers were splayed like the roots of a fallen tree. He was covered in scabs. He lay on his stomach as his arms and legs spasmed continuously, assuming impossible angles. He drooled constantly. His eyes did not focus.
He lay on a thin and filthy bamboo mat, in the direct sunlight.
Everyone averted their eyes from him, including me. But he was sketched in my mind by peripheral glances, and I began to obsess about him.
A scripture from the Book of Acts kept recurring to me: "Then Peter said Silver and gold have I none, but such as I have give I thee . . . "
I wanted very much to be able to do the same thing for that poor cripple, frying like an egg on the scorching sidewalk. It was a prideful longing to do something spectacular that would make the careless Thais sit up and take notice of the LDS Church. I cared nothing for the glory of God, but only for my own chance to get back into the spotlight.
One morning my companion and I went to the Chemical Bank before beginning our business tracting, in order to draw money out of our savings accounts to pay the monthly household bills. This included rent and the maid.
And so we each carried 5-thousand baht in our pockets as we began that day's proselyting.
As we approached the writhing cripple on his stomach I fell a few steps back from my companion. When I reached the beggar I quickly bent down and put all of my 5-thousand baht in his pink plastic bowl. Then caught up with my companion. I never even looked directly at the beggar.
Believe me, this was not my Mother Theresa moment. All I felt was anger and resentment, as if that cripple were emotionally blackmailing me.
I was relieved and guilty at the same time. I had done something, but it was not a miracle, and, according to the Thai members I had talked to, it was probably a complete waste of my own money.
5-thousand baht was a lot of money back then. I had to sell my leather briefcase, my wristwatch and my camera in order to have enough to pay my share of the bills.
I never saw that crippled man again. The next day I was stung by a small scorpion as I was putting on my shoes and had to be rushed to the hospital with a severe allergic reaction. I was in the hospital for several weeks, trying not to ogle the beguiling nurses and my reading material restricted to the Book of Mormon in its incomplete Thai version. When I recovered I was transferred to a different part of Bangkok.
Now that I'm older and don't care a fig about getting any wiser, I can write about what happened back in Bangkok without trying to pin a meaning onto it. Or if you insist on one: "Look up at the tropical sky to go blind and fall into a Bangkok sewer."
En Strengen av Perler: Silver and gold have I none
In 1974 I was in the middle of my LDS mission in Thailand. I worked for two years prior to going to save enough money to be eligible for my call from President Spencer W. Kimball. I had no idea where I would be sent; I only knew I wanted to go. Needed to go. Not to prove anything, but because a love stronger than anything I had ever experienced before had gently led me to that decision. So I did birthday parties as a clown, and then, by good fortune, I was teamed with master clown Steve Smith at Ringling Brothers for a season as advance clown for the show. At a very good salary. When I left the show to become a full-fledged missionary, Smith said huskily: "Tork, just remember that my regard for you is like heat rash -- it'll never be gone unless you learn to shower more often!"
Much of my time in Thailand was spent in and around Bangkok.
The city sidewalks there, when not inundated by floods and garbage, were awash with mendicants.
Country women, their small withered breasts hanging out, sitting sideways and holding a silent infant, followed me with their eyes; their lips and teeth stained a lurid red with betel nut. Blind men blew discordantly on tin whistles. Old ladies, their shriveled faces as sad and remote as an Appalachian applehead doll, holding out an ornately designed tin bowl, mouthing soundless entreaties.
There were, of course, innumerable street urchins, clad only in long tattered t-shirts like Hearst's The Yellow Kid. Their constant cry upon sighting a farang such as myself or my companion was "Hey you, one baht!"
Thai Church members told me that the begging was all a racket -- the Chinese mafia put those poor supplicants out every morning and picked them up after the foot traffic stopped around midnight, keeping most of the money collected and giving the wretched beggars just enough to live on in unimaginable squalor. It was well known, the Thai members informed me, that anyone in real need had only to appeal to the nearest Buddhist temple and the monks there would be glad to see to their wants.
For several weeks in the Pratuu Naam area of Bangkok my companion and I went business tracting -- that is, we went into office buildings, and, floor by floor, office by office, confronted officious secretaries to demand to see the boss right away. We had a very important message to deliver. We got in to see the boss surprisingly often (because there was a rumor extant that the Mormon missionaries were actually working for the CIA) and would then deliver a ten minute explanation of the Family Home Evening program, leave a pamphlet explaining it in more detail. We gave nothing but the dust of our heels to the huffy secretaries.
Each day during that period we walked past one particular beggar, who was spectacularly crippled. He looked like a contortionist frozen in the most agonizing part of his act. His fingers were splayed like the roots of a fallen tree. He was covered in scabs. He lay on his stomach as his arms and legs spasmed continuously, assuming impossible angles. He drooled constantly. His eyes did not focus.
He lay on a thin and filthy bamboo mat, in the direct sunlight.
Everyone averted their eyes from him, including me. But he was sketched in my mind by peripheral glances, and I began to obsess about him.
A scripture from the Book of Acts kept recurring to me: "Then Peter said Silver and gold have I none, but such as I have give I thee . . . "
I wanted very much to be able to do the same thing for that poor cripple, frying like an egg on the scorching sidewalk. It was a prideful longing to do something spectacular that would make the careless Thais sit up and take notice of the LDS Church. I cared nothing for the glory of God, but only for my own chance to get back into the spotlight.
One morning my companion and I went to the Chemical Bank before beginning our business tracting, in order to draw money out of our savings accounts to pay the monthly household bills. This included rent and the maid.
And so we each carried 5-thousand baht in our pockets as we began that day's proselyting.
As we approached the writhing cripple on his stomach I fell a few steps back from my companion. When I reached the beggar I quickly bent down and put all of my 5-thousand baht in his pink plastic bowl. Then caught up with my companion. I never even looked directly at the beggar.
Believe me, this was not my Mother Theresa moment. All I felt was anger and resentment, as if that cripple were emotionally blackmailing me.
I was relieved and guilty at the same time. I had done something, but it was not a miracle, and, according to the Thai members I had talked to, it was probably a complete waste of my own money.
5-thousand baht was a lot of money back then. I had to sell my leather briefcase, my wristwatch and my camera in order to have enough to pay my share of the bills.
I never saw that crippled man again. The next day I was stung by a small scorpion as I was putting on my shoes and had to be rushed to the hospital with a severe allergic reaction. I was in the hospital for several weeks, trying not to ogle the beguiling nurses and my reading material restricted to the Book of Mormon in its incomplete Thai version. When I recovered I was transferred to a different part of Bangkok.
Now that I'm older and don't care a fig about getting any wiser, I can write about what happened back in Bangkok without trying to pin a meaning onto it. Or if you insist on one: "Look up at the tropical sky to go blind and fall into a Bangkok sewer."
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